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You do have choices when it comes to how people treat you

When you worry about how other people treat you focus on how you treat you. Is allowing someone to treat you a certain way really treating yourself the way that you want to be treated?

Sometimes ignoring the problems perpetuates the problem(s) and the best, and most direct way, of changing this is to view your job as allowing or not allowing the people in your life to treat you that way.

If they don’t respond respectfully to your request for better treatment then they are making the choice not you. It’s not always on their terms. Those are no terms at all. To live by.

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What have you said today to someone that will encourage them to be bigger and better?

Love

What have you said today to someone that will encourage them to be bigger and better?

Time and time again, it is the small person who walks around making other people feel small so that they will not feel small in comparison.

This is the cycle of the world. If you think you are small then you belittle others so that in your mind you do not seem so small.

Instead of bringing others down we should all be lifting people up. It is the big people that allow and encourage others to be big because they understand that when we all feel good about ourselves this becomes a much better place to live.

What have you said today to someone that will encourage them to be bigger and better?

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Fear is not where we need to be right now

Echo quoteThere are a lot of people right now that are creating a lot of challenges for those around them. Think of it this way: they are in a fear place that is taking them to a place that they have never been before. When we are fearful we are needy and a little bit out of control. Don’t let those around you control you. They need to ground their fear, become more strong in their faith in themselves, humanity and the world. To go to fear is just going to make the upcoming changes harder.

When these individuals are with close relations you may have to talk to them about their fears, how they are manifesting and how it comes off to you and others.

Fear is not where we need to be. We need to ride with trust for a few waves of this change before it will become apparent to most that all is ok (and, in fact, recent waves of change will prompt greater, more permanent, sustainable change).

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Taking a moment to reflect…a little life advice

In the context of all of our lives the most important moments are when we learn. That is all that I will say. End of point.

If you are trying to bring more meaning to your life then listen to your life, to what is not working and what needs to change. When you listen maybe a new path will be revealed, a new way of living which will help you to change your course.

If you keep on the same course it is not as easy to change. So change, so move, so grow. This is so much more fulfilling in the end than to stay on the same course.

When you change don’t be afraid, new ways of thinking and growth will help gather you from the fall should you have a weak moment and not know how to move forward.

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Building faith one step at a time

Faith

Faith

When you start to worry about all of the voices outside just pay more attention to what we are telling you. When we tell you something you are more than welcome to ask for validation in 10,000 forms. We would rather give you optimistic replies, several times than let you miss out on all of the exciting opportunities on your path.

This is very simple.

  • Ask us a question. We will answer. Listen for the answer.
  • Ask for validation of what answer you thought was given.
  • When you think that you are clear on what has been told to you then act. Act with precision and immediately and then begin the whole process over again.
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The past is the past. The future doesn’t matter. The only moment is now.

We are here to say that cleaning out your closets is a good idea. You forgive people just to have peace of mind. It does not mean that these people can continue to harm you in any way. It means the past is the past. The only moment is now. It’s not even the future that is of the utmost concern.

If you are more focused on the present and not the resentments of the past then you are more open to receive the great joy that is available NOW.

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Be grateful for it is all coming with time

We don’t, often times, see how things are working out. It’s kind of like the analogy that we all like to repeat over and over again. Life just keeps sending you different ingredients. One day you might get the sugar, then a few months (or even years later) you get the flour and by the time it arrives you forget about the sugar. Then you get some oil (it doesn’t matter what kind of oil you get oil) and you are still a bit confused. You see, things build. Things build over time and sometimes we get all of the ingredients and then it is quite a bit longer that we get the recipe. And then, for many of us, once we get the recipe we take time to refine the recipe.

What we are saying is that it just takes some time to all come together. But ALL THE WHILE you are looking for those cookies you are missing a lot of great things like the sugar, the flour and the butter. And there you are thinking that nothing is working out and all along it has been. Just saying. Show some gratitude sometimes. It is all working out.

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Embrace what will come

This time of year reminds many of the imperfections in their relationships and in life. This time of year does bring to the surface the many imperfections in one’s life because life is imperfect. We also tend to see that the grass is always greener on someone else’s lawn. Let me dispell some of these myths.

  • The hardest relationships will be, necessarily, with your birth family. Many of us came into hardship in order to learn. There are always exceptions to this rule. But the notion of an idealic, perfect family without quarrels does not exist.
  • The idea that someone, necessarily, has it easier than you is not a reality. With social media it is easy for one to “paint” this picture. Their is a lot of painting. People post the idealic, Christmas images of their angelic children. They don’t always post the many times that this idealic child has also told them that they hated them. Is is, often times, a very contrived image.

Don’t forget that the hardship is part of what makes this life so great. If you can start to embrace that things are hard here you might to see the infinite blessings that abound.

Happy Holidays to All. It is more than the presents and the great meal. It is about the great gratitude that we feel for life in whatever form it may come in. Just embrace this season for gratitude for what you have not what you don’t have.

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The key to a happy, fulfilled life

We tell you time and time again that all will be ok. We say this when one is consciously aware and tuned it. Not only tuned in, but listens. We all can plug in when it is convenient, but to be continuously plugged in is the key.

It is a three step process:

  1. Plug in continuously, all day, all the time.
  2. Listen within and ask for validation [if you don’t understand the message(s)]
  3. Act, continuously, on this faith (and information).

As your life shifts (because of this change) you will also have to evaluate your goals as you go. Because, as you change and you see how plugging in and acting works out, your measly goals at the beginning might not meet your goals in the end.

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If you want love in your life try starting with self love

If you can't love yourself how can you expect others to love you?

If you can’t love yourself how can you expect others to love you?

When we don’t love ourselves enough our lives do not work out as well as they could. Our road blocks often exist just because we do not love ourselves or love ourselves enough. Most interpersonal relationships suffer just because both parties are not spending enough energy on loving themselves. And, instead, they are spending time trying to earn the love that, they, themselves need to provide for themselves.

Self love is hard. It is a constant effort. It will challenge you. However, if you want a loving, fulfilling relationship in your life you need to only start with loving yourself.