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Appreciation

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Sometimes we have to appreciate all things even if they are not exactly the way that we want them to be. Things are never going to 100% going to be perfect in our lives. We can appreciate all things, nonetheless. We, often times, get caught up in how (in our minds) we think things should be. This is an imperfect world, with imperfect people, with natural laws that make things hard (very hard). Is it not enough that we have love, have friends, have a life, have a job, have food on our tables? Those are many small miracles that get overlooked every day.

The more gratitude and appreciation we have for things, great and small, the more room that we create for more of the same. It is energy. Be in the energy of gratitude and you will create the space, more space, for more things to be grateful for.

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The key to a happy, fulfilled life

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We tell you time and time again that all will be ok. We say this when one is consciously aware and tuned it. Not only tuned in, but listens. We all can plug in when it is convenient, but to be continuously plugged in is the key.

It is a three step process:

  1. Plug in continuously, all day, all the time.
  2. Listen within and ask for validation [if you don’t understand the message(s)]
  3. Act, continuously, on this faith (and information).

As your life shifts (because of this change) you will also have to evaluate your goals as you go. Because, as you change and you see how plugging in and acting works out, your measly goals at the beginning might not meet your goals in the end.

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If you want love in your life try starting with self love

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If you can't love yourself how can you expect others to love you?

If you can’t love yourself how can you expect others to love you?

When we don’t love ourselves enough our lives do not work out as well as they could. Our road blocks often exist just because we do not love ourselves or love ourselves enough. Most interpersonal relationships suffer just because both parties are not spending enough energy on loving themselves. And, instead, they are spending time trying to earn the love that, they, themselves need to provide for themselves.

Self love is hard. It is a constant effort. It will challenge you. However, if you want a loving, fulfilling relationship in your life you need to only start with loving yourself.

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Have the courage to change and change will occur

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Look for signs and your North Star will appear

Look for signs and your North Star will appear

Things start to shift in one’s life when one has the courage to change. You don’t have to have an action plan, just a willingness to go with the flow, listen within, and move in different directions when prompted.

If you get too caught up in wanting to know how a new life will transpire then you will miss the sounds of the promptings making you move.

Look for signs and your North will appear.

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With growth comes loss. But you must focus on the growth NOT the loss.

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With change there is loss. Focus on the gains.

Focus on the growth not the loss.

Be aware that new life patterns are appearing as old life patterns are disappearing. As you grow you will leave what no longer suites you (or it will appear that these things will leave you). What is happening, simultaneously, is that a new skin appears as an old skin disappears.

When you are courageous enough to grow you will experience loss. However, you must count your blessings as they appear, for they are your new life and this new skin suites you well. In fact, it suites you better than your old skin.

With growth comes loss. But you must focus on the growth NOT the loss.

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Learn lessons the easy way

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Learn Lessons the Easy Way

Tune into life. Listen and learn.

Things always work out, no matter what. Be present and learn the lessons and there is value in every experience. This world will teach you lessons, whether it is the hard or the easy way. The way to choose the easy way is to learn the lessons before they knock you on the ground, hard. Usually we are receiving messages, through dreams, through life, and through other messengers long before we actually learn the lesson the hard way.

So tune into life. Not only listen, but learn and then the learning will not be so hard.

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Find what blocks your success instead of collapsing into failure

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Find what is blocking your success; don't give up

Find what is blocking your success; don’t give up

When things don’t go the way that you expected them to go please take the time to ask what the lesson is that you are about to learn. Do you need to clear the blockages getting in the way of your success? Often times people do. They get in the way of their own success and working at this level provides more answers than continuing on the same path, trying the same tactics, to move forward.

When evaluating your blockages go to a deeper level by thinking of the incident that did not go as expected and feel how your body feels. If there is a part of your body that brings your attention pay attention to how that part of your body feels, while breathing deeply. If you stay present, observing that part of your body as well as focusing on deep breathing, information in the form of visions or words or thoughts will lead you to the source(s) of the blockage. If you just focus, without judgement, there will be hints of what the blockage is all about.

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If at first you don’t succeed; try, try again

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Try one more time

Try one more time

When things don’t work out one thing that you can say is that your tried. To try is more important than anything else. There will be a lot of things that you will not “succeed” at, but when you keep trying you are guaranteed to succeed a little bit more (or a lot more) than you would just sitting on your couch.

The comfort in sitting on your couch is that you will never have to say that you failed. On the other hand, you will also be able to say that you never really tried.

Try, try, try. Just keep trying. Something is bound to work out. The focus is more on the trying and having fun trying. Many successful men and women tried several times (sometimes several hundred times) until they succeeded. But at least they tried.

Try new things each and every day without judging the amount of “success” gained for it is more important to try than this perception of success.

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Try new things each day

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When things don’t work out the way that we want them to we don’t say that we have failed we say at least we have tried. So many people get discouraged at failure, whereas, we think that focusing on the outcome is only part of the story. If you always focus on the outcome then you are less likely to to try, to try new things and to succeed. So try something new and adventurous each day. That will definitely lengthen your sense of how long your life is.

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Things we are all learning

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We are here to learn to love not love things

We are here to learn to love not love things

  • When something does not work out, despite how much effort we put into making it work, we can be okay with the fact that we have put effort into something that has not turned out the way that we wanted it to turn out.
  • The effort or the experience is sometimes more important than the specific outcome of the event or experience.
  • The path is more important than the destination.
  • The outcome is outweighed by the lessons learned.

(Earth puts a perspective on things that doesn’t necessarily serve us well right now).

  • We came here to learn not earn wages.
  • We came here to love not love things.
  • We came here to mend relationships not sever relationships.

That is all. Just a few lessons we are all learning. It’s much the same for nearly all of us.